Monday, April 8, 2013

My boyfriend wants to be friends-what does this mean?

So you're dating this guy, things are going along smoothly and then suddenly springs that about yourself: " maybe we should just be friends ".

What happens now? And ' over, or c ' is a possibility that you can be boyfriend and girlfriend again? What exactly does say when a guy just wants to be friends?

Whenever your boyfriend alters the terms of romantic relationship Platonic, something happened to change her mind. Or he has his eyes on someone else, or maybe he is just trying to change things a bit ' ... in both cases, you must act quickly if you want any chance of being together with him. Sitting around hoping that things will go better isn't good enough, and along with his idea of being buddies is even worse. Because you know what? The ' friendship with your ex is a one-way street ... Once you start down this road, there are few chances to get things back the way they were.

There are some good news though, when your boyfriend wants to be friends with you after the break. The fact that he still wants to keep around is a good indication that he isn't totally through the ' idea of dating you. Every guy who really don't want anymore that break and go away ... It is a little insensitive, but is ' the ' only thing that all guys have in common when they finally want to leave. A guy who makes a clean cut with you does not want contact, friendship, or any of that stuff. In this scenario, your ex will break communication rather quickly after ending things.

But a guy who wants to be friends and stay in touch after it's over? Trying to stay comfortable. And ' nice to know where you are and what you're doing, where they decide to change their mind. Knowing that you still want him back a big plus for your ex-some guys if they serve to keep you around for a long time after the chances of getting back are gone. Other guys use the guise of friendship as a way to keep the door open to more physical needs: booty call, the midnight meeting misleading ... all these things are possible by keeping you from a distance.

Knowing that your ex boyfriend still thinks about you might be nice, but wanting him to take care of yourself is only natural. If it does, and if it has a love in his heart for you, he will not let you go. For this reason, asked to be friends in the first place-so you don't have to go anywhere. He stands still, hanging out with you, talk on the phone and via email ... it's almost like they're still dating, but without all the things of high pressure that goes with seriously with someone: monogamy is only an example.

hurt that he's got a big plus for your ex-some guys use to keep you around for a long time after the chances of getting back are gone. Other guys use the guise of friendship as a way to keep the door open to more physical needs: booty call, the midnight meeting misleading ... all these things are possible by keeping you from a distance.

Knowing that your ex boyfriend still thinks about you might be nice, but wanting him to take care of yourself is only natural. If it does, and if it has a love in his heart for you, he will not let you go. For this reason, asked to be friends in the first place-so you don't have to go anywhere. He stands still, hanging out with you, talk on the phone and via email ... it's almost like they're still dating, but without all the things of high pressure that goes with seriously with someone: monogamy is only an example.

If you want your boyfriend back, simply can't be friends with him. There is just no way ' viable to get closer to that situation. Either you break external forces (for example, dates back another, he get a new girlfriend, etc. ..) or jealousy for not being part of their lives, slowly erode away the relationship that had once. Because he is dumped, you are always going to be wanting more. And when did you get? Any friendship you have with your ex will be strained, to say the least.

Instead of sitting around you to ask questions as " my boyfriend wants to be friends, what does it mean? ", perhaps it is time that a more proactive approach to this sudden interruption in your relationship. You want your ex back? Good ... start working to get him. Do not accept the ' friendship as a lame replacement for a full-blown relationship, and don't try to pretend not to have feelings for someone, obviously, when you do. If you love your boyfriend again, tell him that you can't just be friends " ". Tell him that you want more because your feelings run too deep. Let him know that you have date or as a girl or he didn't get to see you at all ... you're not going to sit in a role of friendship and of type plaster fake a smile on your face every time you see him.

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