In the previous article about the romantic break-up ' ' we discussed why the break-up occurs in the second phase of the ' romantic love, which is the phase of personal attraction.
The first phase of the ' love is Lust, followed by personal attraction phase and if the ' love is meant to last ultimately, the final phase of the ' love is attachment. Our behavior in love and in various stages of ' love is significantly determined by the particular hormone complex biochemistry that dominates this stage of love.
In lust these biochemicals are mainly dopamine and adrenal serotonin and therefore transitional episodes. But all of these work together to influence our behavior in lust and so it is at this stage that our decision is the most severely affected. For example, our discrimination or selectivity on who is suitable or appropriate lover ' ' is at its lowest level in this short but intense Lust.
But the Attraction of ' love the Dopamines have gone and serotonin levels begin dropping to near-normal levels, but very important, take a lover, before doing the '. This is the underlying reality of heartbreak ' ' most all arising from a failed relationship. ' at this point and biochemical that break-up begins at the stage of personal attraction d ' love.
This is because the ' lover whose Serotonin levels are back to normal now sees the ' another lover more authentically what he had already done before, or even could, still under the influence of high ' levels of ' drug ' feel good serotonin.
They may even begin to contrast what they see in their now with Dream Lover ' lover ' their ideal. Especially if they are not matured in their romantic life experiences. If they do this then of course contrast their lover always manage to meet their standard fantasy ' '.
How many people are correct when they say the ' lover who broke with John ", The chemistry just won't c ' is more "
Therefore, the partner with the return to normal levels of serotonin may begin to behave in a way designed to effect of termination. This behavior can sometimes occurs in less than fully self-conscious level.
On the contrary, however, the ' is still very loving more under the spell of ' love ' biochemist. They therefore feel puzzled about ' ' as the person with whom they have shared so much tenderness and love and deep feelings of intimacy with now has somehow changed suddenly in a cold person and contradictory. hey now see their lover with Dream Lover ' ' their ideal. Especially if they are not matured in their romantic life experiences. If they do this then of course contrast their lover always manage to meet their standard fantasy ' '.
How many people are correct when they say the ' lover who broke with John ", The chemistry just won't c ' is more "
Therefore, the partner with the return to normal levels of serotonin may begin to behave in a way designed to effect of termination. This behavior can sometimes occurs in less than fully self-conscious level.
On the contrary, however, the ' is still very loving more under the spell of ' love ' biochemist. They therefore feel puzzled about ' ' as the person with whom they have shared so much tenderness and love and deep feelings of intimacy with now has somehow changed suddenly in a cold person and contradictory.
They feel betrayed and cannot understand why this happened. Think: " he (or she) behaves as if all the songs that we never shared success, how can he (or she) " this way? they often wonder What " c ' is wrong with me, because she (or he) I suddenly see how ' not enough '? " when in reality this is not really the real problem.
Now let's move on to why a romantic holiday on may be so terribly painful and especially because they can victimize a person for so long, even decades after the break-up.
Firstly we need to recognise the depression from withdrawal ' ' production of biochemicals that make us feel great " only " when we are in love.
Dopamines while rather short-lived are produced at a certain level especially during a physical sex between the romantic parts. Consequently, the withdrawal of Dopamines following a break-up ' ' follows a model similar to the withdrawal symptoms of any other narcotic such as heroin or morphine ' (though physiologically less severe)
I believe that l ' love is an example of ' sum of the part that is bigger than all ' kind of mystery.
The closest to the Attachment of Love (dominated by vasopressin) that is experiencing one of the partners, and this will always be the partners in the relationship that is abandoned by other, higher the withdrawal symptoms (pain) will be for them. 216; baffled by how the person ' with which they shared so much tenderness and love and deep feelings of intimacy with now has somehow changed suddenly in a cold person and contradictory.
They feel betrayed and cannot understand why this happened. Think: " he (or she) behaves as if all the songs that we never shared success, how can he (or she) " this way? they often wonder What " c ' is wrong with me, because she (or he) I suddenly see how ' not enough '? " when in reality this is not really the real problem.
Now let's move on to why a romantic holiday on may be so terribly painful and especially because they can victimize a person for so long, even decades after the break-up.
Firstly we need to recognise the depression from withdrawal ' ' production of biochemicals that make us feel great " only " when we are in love.
Dopamines while rather short-lived are produced at a certain level especially during a physical sex between the romantic parts. Consequently, the withdrawal of Dopamines following a break-up ' ' follows a model similar to the withdrawal symptoms of any other narcotic such as heroin or morphine ' (though physiologically less severe)
I believe that l ' love is an example of ' sum of the part that is bigger than all ' kind of mystery.
The closest to the Attachment of Love (dominated by vasopressin) that is experiencing one of the partners, and this will always be the partners in the relationship that is abandoned by other, higher the withdrawal symptoms (pain) will be for them.
Now, while there can be no scientific basis for this clear and measurable, as there is for other biochemical discussed here, this situation is d ' agreement with our common sense. This is the deepest " in love " is a person with the ' other then the more painful is the ' abandonment and betrayal of that person felt.
As well as the withdrawal of dopamine, I personal believe that withdrawal serotonin is perhaps even more painfully felt. Consider how one feels really good ' ' be around your loved one at the climax of the relationship regardless of what they are doing together. The presence of our lover causes the release of serotonin in our body.
But in most relationships are not always with our beloved. This engages another powerful psychological mechanism too.
For example, young lovers could meet clandestinely for one reason or another. May also be separated by geographic distance. Alternatively, you could just have work schedules that leave them apart most of the time.
The result is that watching with great anticipation for their next appointment, and that in itself can influence a biochemical release. Carly Simon song " love " echoes in anticipation of this reality.
But when you are stitched intermittently like this there is then created the intermittent re-applying ' ' Association which is the hardest and enduring of all conditioned responses to extinguish. A simple example of the classic intermittent re-execution is observed in laboratory mice that were given a food tablet when you press a bar when a levered in their cage light turns on. UST " feel great " when we are in love.
Dopamines while rather short-lived are produced at a certain level especially during a physical sex between the romantic parts. Consequently, the withdrawal of Dopamines following a break-up ' ' follows a model similar to the withdrawal symptoms of any other narcotic such as heroin or morphine ' (though physiologically less severe)
I believe that l ' love is an example of ' sum of the part that is bigger than all ' kind of mystery.
The closest to the Attachment of Love (dominated by vasopressin) that is experiencing one of the partners, and this will always be the partners in the relationship that is abandoned by other, higher the withdrawal symptoms (pain) will be for them.
Now, while there can be no scientific basis for this clear and measurable, as there is for other biochemical discussed here, this situation is d ' agreement with our common sense. This is the deepest " in love " is a person with the ' other then the more painful is the ' abandonment and betrayal of that person felt.
As well as the withdrawal of dopamine, I personal believe that withdrawal serotonin is perhaps even more painfully felt. Consider how one feels really good ' ' be around your loved one at the climax of the relationship regardless of what they are doing together. The presence of our lover causes the release of serotonin in our body.
But in most relationships are not always with our beloved. This engages another powerful psychological mechanism too.
For example, young lovers could meet clandestinely for one reason or another. May also be separated by geographic distance. Alternatively, you could just have work schedules that leave them apart most of the time.
The result is that watching with great anticipation for their next appointment, and that in itself can influence a biochemical release. Carly Simon song " love " echoes in anticipation of this reality.
But when you are stitched intermittently like this there is then created the intermittent re-applying ' ' Association which is the hardest and enduring of all conditioned responses to extinguish. A simple example of the classic intermittent re-execution is observed in laboratory mice that were given a food tablet when you press a bar when a levered in their cage light turns on.
The mice get pellet food each and every time you hit the bar when the light comes on you stop pressing the bar immediately after the pellet food stops being delivered. Do not stop ' and ' attempt to stop pressing the very first compared to mice that got only intermittently food pellets. The intermittent ' reinforced ' mice are the most durable response that requires more time to pay off.
So ' love story d reinforced intermittently where lovers seeing each other only intermittently ' ' naturally creates a condition of behavior that is not easily extinguished quickly or over time once the lover is denied the company of others.
This is one reason that a failed love ' history can haunt thoughts of a person for years.
To a lesser extent, generally at a level less intense, a failed marriage can work the same way.
But c is another press release ' biochemist at work here too and can actually be one that is more significant than the intermittent condition re-performance in supporting the pain for a lost love. This release is biochemist and adrenaline that has a unique role to play both in learning and memory.
Anything with experience or learned by virtue of a release of the adrenal gland, which is the biochemistry " ", escape or fight is stored differently in the brain than anything else learned in a non-adrenal gland. Experienced things based on a longer-lasting memories create adrenal and those memories will be associated with triggers ' ' concerning their recall.
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