Here's how to finally get the former to return your phone calls

Okay, you have a little problem getting that certain someone to return your e-mail or telephone calls or text messages and it is driving you crazy! Do not you wish there was some sort of 'magic' that if they spoke, would your ex actually return your calls? It seems hard to believe, but there are words that almost a spell on your ex and make them feel almost obliged to return the call.

And how sweet is that? ...

And you're not alone! I have more than 35,000 members and this topic is always at the top by people who just want to put their lives and relationships back together. Today, you and I are going to share a little 'secret'.

Today, I'm going to share with you the answer 'secret' of ... "Only that it will be my return whatever (e-mail, phone, etc.)"

BUT ...

WARNING!

Now, you must be very careful with this technique because they do not want to ruin any chance of rebuilding the relationship. And if you do not have a strategy for 'complete' in place you can never return your phone call. There are resources available that can walk through the steps of a plan or strategy for success.

NEVER say this!

Now, before sailing in the words actually used, it must examine the type of message that will never work and almost always gets framed 'psychological' a terrible mind. And usually fall into two categories.

The BEG - It 's kinda like this: "Jack, please, please call me This is the 10th time I called I need to talk to you ..." (Yuck)

And then there's URGENT -! "Donna, this is an emergency please call me as soon as you get this.." (Puhleez)

Kinda obvious what's wrong with that, right? They stink with despair! Nuff said.

How To Use Curiosity and interest to your advantage

What we need to use are the two most powerful features in human psychology. Namely, they are: Self interest and uniqueness.

And here's the big secret! Each of them alone are strong, but, when coupled together are virtually unstoppable.

So ...

gically 'a terrible mind. And usually fall into two categories.

The BEG - It 's kinda like this: "Jack, please, please call me This is the 10th time I called I need to talk to you ..." (Yuck)

And then there's URGENT -! "Donna, this is an emergency please call me as soon as you get this.." (Puhleez)

Kinda obvious what's wrong with that, right? They stink with despair! Nuff said.

How To Use Curiosity and interest to your advantage

What we need to use are the two most powerful features in human psychology. Namely, they are: Self interest and uniqueness.

And here's the big secret! Each of them alone are strong, but, when coupled together are virtually unstoppable.

So ...

Let's see if we can use these tools to our advantage and come up with something that works almost every time it is used, okay? Using a calming, pleasant tone of voice that would say something like this:

"Hi Jack. And 'Woman. I just thought I'd let you know how grateful I am for what you did for me. I would like to thank personally, give me a call." See the difference? See what happens here as we use both our 'secret' means? Jack goes to call, because it will not be able to resist thinking "what have I done?" "Whether you thankful for?" And it is creating a positive message and he'll feel good!

Now ...

Obviously, you need to do a bit of 'set-up' before you call real. Not a big enough problem to understand what he / she did that made you grateful. It needs to be something real, but should not be something big. Some little thing works well.

But please, once again ...