Why Women Break Up with Men? 5 Things I Have Learned

Yes, I admit. I have downloaded a number of times - many wonderful women, in fact. This has happened more times than I care to say. Each woman seemed so special in its own way so that any loss was particularly painful. And, although the pain of the break was present each time, I must admit that I grew from each of these experiences.

Not long ago, a friend of mine who had been left by his longtime girlfriend asked me, "Robbie, why do women break up with men?" Here I share with you the 5 things I learned from women who have dumped me:

1. It takes two people to make or break a relationship

If you're like 99% of men out there, while in the midst of the pain of being dumped is very easy to blame your wife for your unhappiness. Of course, in truth, if the relationship was no longer working, is likely to have been part of the problem. So, be sure to face honestly what part you had to play the break. You can use what you learn in your next report.

out, while in the midst of the pain of being dumped is very easy to blame your wife for your unhappiness. Of course, in truth, if the relationship was no longer working, is likely to have been part of the problem. So, be sure to face honestly what part you had to play the break. You can use what you learn in your next report.

2. It 'important to give her space from time to time

Most women love to hug, cuddle, and generally have a lot of physical contact. The women, perhaps even more than men, as being in close proximity to their boy, whenever possible. But do not let this behavior fool you: women need their own space, too. And, while men often take a "live and let live" attitude towards their partner, if you felt during the relationship that might be his to lose, you may have gotten a bit 'possessive - anything to keep her short leash out of your insecurity. This is a mistake. If you end up always another chance with the woman who has left: whenever you have the desire to get possessive, do the opposite and give her space.

3. The pain will go away

Every morning you awake to face a new day, it is likely that the sensation of pain of breaking in a new and fresh. Maybe it's the first thing you think of when you open your eyes, and when you do, the pain is in the race. Trust me on this, as difficult as it is to imagine at this time, the pain will go away, I promise! Just hang in there a little 'longer.

or lose, you may have gotten a bit 'possessive - anything to keep her on a short leash out of your insecurity. This is a mistake. If you end up always another chance with the woman who has left: whenever you have the desire to get possessive, do the opposite and give her space.

3. The pain will go away

Every morning you awake to face a new day, it is likely that the sensation of pain of breaking in a new and fresh. Maybe it's the first thing you think of when you open your eyes, and when you do, the pain is in the race. Trust me on this, as difficult as it is to imagine at this time, the pain will go away, I promise! Just hang in there a little 'longer.

4. Some things are simply not meant to be

Your ex is probably a wonderful person, and it is likely that you feel very attracted to her romantically. You can feel deep in your heart that she is the right one for you. If you feel that way, take a moment to take a step back: to realize, first, that might not only wants to be and there is something far more likely to be out there for you. Second, realize that if you want to be, will be together again one day soon. In both cases, the smart thing to do is have a degree of recognition that things are now. By accepting the peace comes.

5. Good things happen to those who help themselves

To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin: good things happen to those who help themselves. Remember that while you can not change what has already happened, you have full control over how to react to what is happening now. If you want to have a positive future romantic, you must take control of your actions and your thoughts.

This means, of course, to get back on that proverbial horse. Go meet new people and have a blast. It will, I promise, find another relationship. If you follow my advice on things that I have learned from being dumped and to pass, there will be an excellent start in your new life.