Friday, October 5, 2012

If we got back together I Would Die Happy: I Still Love You

It may still be in love with your ex, even if he or she can not feel the same way. In fact, it can still be so in love with your ex that you say to yourself: "If we're back together and remained so for the rest of our lives, I would die happy: I still love you." Here's how you know they are really still in love with him or her.

Of course, the situation you are in is tough. First, I do not know for sure that your ex is still in love with you. Maybe it's not your ex claims to love you more, but in reality he or she still does. Perhaps still hold deep feelings for you. After all, it is not uncommon after a break, and the couple still love each other very much. In this case, the rupture is usually due to other reasons.

If you can really say to yourself that you're still in love with your ex, did you know that there is a very good possibility that I still love you, too? Of course, just knowing that does not necessarily mean that the two should go together. After all, he had reason to your left. Even if your ex dumped you (not vice versa), it is important that you think very hard about everything. If you really look at the situation honestly, it is highly likely that there might be two or three good reasons why it is better that the two stay apart forever.

Or, in your case, the rupture may have been more or less something that you have decided to do. It is even more essential in this situation that you think deeply about why he accepted the break. It 'clear that the court decision to break it was a mistake, right? But if you really look at the reasons that were both honest to end the relationship, you might even conclude that it is better not to try to rekindle your relationship now-ended.

ro ex dumped you (not vice versa), it is important that you think very hard about everything. If you really look at the situation honestly, it is highly likely that there might be two or three good reasons why it is better that the two stay apart forever.

Or, in your case, the rupture may have been more or less something that you have decided to do. It is even more essential in this situation that you think deeply about why he accepted the break. It 'clear that the court decision to break it was a mistake, right? But if you really look at the reasons that were both honest to end the relationship, you might even conclude that it is better not to try to rekindle your relationship now-ended.

On the other hand, maybe you want to make a go again with your ex. Just the thought of his smiling face would fill with the hope that the two of you could work things out. Just do not fool yourself thinking that it will be easy to get back together. The causes of the collapse are still there after all. What makes you think that things will automatically improve just because you got back together? Sure, it might be fine for a couple of days or weeks because you're on a high, but what steps will be taken to ensure that the meeting will last? If you are like most other couples who give him another chance, the honeymoon period after the reunion will not go on forever. And then what choices do you have?

If you believe that you want to be with your ex for the rest of your life and think: "I would die happy if we spent the rest of our lives together," you have some serious work to do. What are you going to do to overcome the problems that are forced to share in the first place? A good option is to seek professional advice for couples. No matter what you decide to do, the bottom line is that you need to educate yourself about what works in making relationships last.

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