Although cracks seem to occur suddenly, it can be as bad - or worse - to stay in a relationship without love. You are stubborn and willing to compromise on issues? If you sense that your relationship is coming to an end and you are just afraid to face the inevitable, there are some things you can try in order to save the relationship.
# 1 I do not blame.
Often blame each other when our relationship is not what we want. He does not listen when I talk to him. She does not warm up to me. It 'too much to ask him to do something nice for me once in a while? I feel like I would do more for her if only she would stop nagging me all the time. It never helps to blame the other person to report the absence, but just to make everyone on the defensive. Start appreciating your partner for who they are, not who you want them to be.
# 2 Give your partner space.
It is not good get in the habit of always having your partner around. A very common reason for couples breaking up is the question of addiction. You need to be okay with the fact that you and your partner may need some time apart to do some things. If you feel like you need to be with your partner all the time, then maybe you should take the hint and look for some things you can do outside your relationship.
# 3 Do you communicate with each other?
If you want the relationship to flourish, it is imperative that we talk about things in a constructive manner. If you find that you will only be able to communicate with each other through an argument, sarcasm, and nasty comments, then it is probably time to move away from such disrespectful behavior, and because it will only damage your relationship. Want to talk to your friends or colleagues in that way? Why would you want to hurt someone you love, talking that way?
# 4 Do not listen to lies.
You are in a habit of doing imaginary scenes about what your partner is or to think? For example, if your partner does not immediately need a cure yours Because They were busy with something else, does not imagine that means-they do not care about? Do not listen to those voices, are just as polluting your vision of reality.
# 5 Are you paying attention to your partner?
Are you aware of things that interest your partner? Want to give them the opportunity to explain their side of the story? Sometimes we do not listen because we want to be right at all costs. The next time you disagree on an issue, groped to stay calm and listen objectively to the words of the other person. It should be understood that not always being right and not listening carefully you can lose something important.
Even doing the above may not be enough to make a major change in some reports. If this is how you feel, then you probably will enjoy some time away from each other. Use this time to clear your mind and understand what you really want.
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