So what if you were a bit 'needy, dependent and dependent on your girlfriend or boyfriend. This does not mean that they needed to break up with you. Show them that you're not so needy and that you are able to live life without them. Ironically, this will help you get your ex back.
Before anything, make sure you can get a hold of you ... I can not go there and start to shake you. Stop crying and stop thinking about your ex. This will not work if you have any doubt in themselves, are insecure, and always thinking of them. Stay positive and do not allow negative thoughts (memories, pictures of your ex, etc.) to enter your head. You are on a mission here, not only to get your ex back, but to make you a stronger person.
First, get your phone out. Write down all the numbers of your former friends of the opposite sex that both of you guys knew. You are obviously a lot of anxiety, so call them and ask them if you can pour your feelings towards them, since you can not really pour your feelings toward your ex. Invite them to your home.
The second thing you need to do is talk to them what happened between you and your girlfriend or boyfriend. Friends "" love hearing gossip and details, in order to go deep and try to add emotional curiosity.
For example, start slowly and be gentle with them ... If they are there with you, they "want" to hear your story. Again, start slow and say something like: "I really tried my best to keep this relationship alive, but I think that simply did not work ..." Then start to add details about them. Tell them what you missed the way my hair feels soft and how they had that cute smile always eccentric who made you laugh. Your voice should not be depressing or whiny, it should be nostalgic and uplifting. Look into their eyes while you're saying this to them.
Spend at least an hour talking with them and make sure you're always raising the bar each time ... You want to have as a very good relationship with your former friend and make them feel an emotional connection to you from a casual conversation, to playful flirting, to deeper, more intimate conversation about what you guys have in common or secret stories did not reveal to anyone.
Watch for their signals. If they seem to respond in a "I do not mind being taken advantaged" type way, tell them what they remember your ex and start compliments to their physical and inner qualities.
When things start to heat up between you two, tell them you want to show them something in the room. Take the hand and lead them to your bedroom. Continue to develop the conversation in depth until there is a moment of silence in which both guys are looking at. If you do not look away, slowly graze your fingers on the side of his face, lean, and gently kiss them on the lips as if it were the most delicate thing on earth. From here, you should have no problem continuing a vapor, sexual adventures and to be on the way to get your ex jealous, creating a feeling that processes them with her.
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