Although some cracks can happen by surprise, it can hurt as much or more when you're stuck in a relationship where there is no love. Six each bullheaded, refusing to make concessions or compromise on issues? If the relationship is in trouble and is fearing the inevitable, here are some tips that can help to save her.
# 1. Try to refrain from the blame on the partner.
We often do not accept our fault when a relationship turns sour. He did not pay attention to what I say more. It is very hot and passionate. Why is it that does nothing good for me? If you just quit tormenting me, so I would do more for her. Saying that it is the fault of the other, will not help to make everything better, just makes everyone defensive. Begin by accepting your partner for the person I am instead of who you want to be.
# 2. Try to stop being demanding.
Not being able to do things without your significant other nearby is unhealthy for your relationship. The dependence has led to a series of relationship failures. You need to understand That is normal and necessary for you and your partner to take some time apart to do the little things, like shopping. If you find that you want to spend all your time with your partner, take this as a sign that you should have a hobby that you can do it yourself.
# 3. Talk to each other?
Communication is essential for a functional relationship. If you realize the only way you can have a conversation is when you argue, say something sarcastic, or make a statement ugly, it's time to stop this behavior, you are demeaning and not showing respect. You do not talk to friends or colleagues like this, so why talk to your loved one this way?
# 4. Do not listen to anything that is not true.
You always imagine false situations about what your partner does or thinks? That little voice in your head tells you things like your mate has lost the desire for you because it did not stop what they were doing when you needed attention. Ignore these beliefs wrong, because they are distorting reality for you.
# 5. Are you a good listener?
You have no idea what the interests of your partners? Have you heard their opinion when you argue and make them a good opportunity to explain their point of view? There are times when we just have to be right and we do not hear anyone else say anything. When a problem arises, try to be calm and open to the opinions of your partner and listen to them. Otherwise, you may hear something important, and yes, sometimes you're wrong.
In some reports, if you follow the above suggestions still not be enough to change the situation significantly. If this is the case, then your relationship has endured enough and that it is necessary for the two of you to spend some time away from them. Use this time to clear your mind and make decisions about what you want.
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