A lot of people "doing random things" when their boyfriend or girlfriend break with them. Then there are always people giving vague advice that may be left confused and angry. To get your ex back, realize that it will take time, so do not expect it to be a "quick fix". I know this is long but follow these simple pointers and hopefully you'll be on your way to get your ex back.
Step 1 - Stop contacting
Why do you think your girlfriend or boyfriend broke up with you? I can tell you that one of the main reasons is because it may have been too sticky for them. Examples would be you called them most of the time, rather than you call them. When they were around friends, you never want to go out with you instead? Perhaps you wanted their attention a little 'too' and have decided to cut the rope that caused her to be in the position now. If you're on a break right now, whatever you do, do not call them or text message Them, even if you're obsessed. Not only this can be annoying, but it will work against you. It's okay, breathe ... them a little 'space at this time.
Step 2 - Deal with "Your" first problems
Stop sorrowing and stop thinking about your ex! Whenever you are in any time thinking about your ex, you immediately stop thinking about something else. Make this a habit, or if you have to pinch yourself. To stop thinking about your ex, try to occupy your thoughts with something - anything! You can easily do constantly doing activities that cause your body and mind to focus on something else like jogging at the park, talking to people, go to the movies with friends, go rock climbing, working at a gym, join a discussion club, go to a party, go to a club, or draw a picture!
Step 3 - Ensure that 100% of
Keep doing these activities! At first it will be difficult, but expect this, just like every obstacle that you had to face in life. After the second day, third and fifth day onwards, do activities and other things will be much easier. If you keep at it, have a positive attitude and constantly talk to people (not your ex), it is likely that within two weeks a month, you will be completely from any emotional depression that was caused by the collapse. Also, stay away from music that has a text on any kind of love, sex, or rupture. Techno can be a good choice, because it has no text, and is very optimistic!
Step 4 - meet
Make sure you have allowed time to pass before continuing with this step. could be due two weeks to two months to a year and a half. No matter ... what matters is your attitude! You need to be confident ease with yourself and life, and even if you've gotten this far, you're already golden. Within about month of not calling your ex, would probably call to see how you're doing because they will be curious and maybe want to meet you. If not, contact them, after you feel like your fully recovered, and ask them if they wanted to get something just as friends .. You should ask them in a mature way where you're just saying, "Hey want to hang out sometime ? With this positive attitude will most likely agree and say, "Sure."
Step 5 - friend and treat them just a friend
When you guys get together, do not mention anything to break. This is the past! If you happen to bring it up, just say it was for the best. Their break with you was not that big of a deal. If you show any signs of weakness, your ex will think that you still have feelings for them, causing embarrassment. Speaking of new things as if you were on a date with them - a fun, flirty, joke and have fun! Make fun of yourselves! What begins to wonder why their presence does not make you head for them, and even better, they'll start finding that person to be dated to the first attraction. If you start sending signals of attraction (for the most obvious would be talking about your relationship memories boys' - that is to say, "Hey, remember when we did this?"), Then you will know that they were thinking of you and still have feelings for you. Whatever happens, do not repeat it again, whatever happens, it should be to choose if you want to take them back or move your current life. Hope this helps and good luck!
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