5 things I need to ask yourself before Breakup

Which is better, what makes the break or the one that broke?

All the attention is usually dumped to the public attention, we rarely take the time to think about what it means to be the other way. Breaking up is hard for both people.

It is not a position that the desire to be in, you may have feelings of guilt, sadness, anger and depression when making the decision to break up with someone.

To alleviate some of these fears, here is a list of 5 things you need to ask yourself before you break.

1: Is there abuse involved?

Physical abuse: He / She blows, slaps and shoves you.
Verbal Abuse: He / She is degraded by harsh words and insults.
Psychological abuse: this is controlling behavior, emotional extortion / blackmail, jealousy or uncontrolled.

The abuse can not be tolerated or endured. You never will be able to change the other person, no matter what they say. The only thing you can do is run as fast as you can and not look back.

2: There is a dramatic change in my life?

Job / career change, switching to a new home, problems at work or an illness - one of these things can cause problems. Being stressed out about something, time is your work or family problems, you may be tempted to transfer these feelings to your partner. You might think that if you break this report your problems disappear. But the reality is, it must address these issues and do not blame them on your partner.

3: I'm happy with this relationship?

Wanting to be totally in love with your partner 24 / 7 is a fantastic idea to think about, but this usually is not the way things go, the reality is rarely respond to reports of such ideals. Many people expect that 100 percent satisfaction with their partners is how it should be.

Ask yourself: Be honest with yourself now, I'm happy to report 80 percent of the time or more?

Yes - then you are doing well with this report.
No - The work to be done or consider moving on.

4: I'm frustrated and I tried to discuss my concerns?

Some of us think that our partners should be able to read our minds knowing our needs and requirements without us ever having to communicate.

Communication is necessary in any relationship.

Before the door to show your partner, discuss your concerns and worries.
Gals Tip for you guys we are not telepathic, we can use a little direction from time to time.

5: I'll be working on this report?

Whatever your doubts and worries, there's one thing they do or the end of the report: the desire to work on your relationship together. If you are both committed to improving your relationship together, there is not much hope it will work or last.

Just words saying what the other wants to hear is not good enough, actions speak louder than words. When both make a united effort to work on the relationship to make the changes that are necessary, there is no reason to say goodbye forever.