Well hello again my dear friend. If you're reading this, you're probably in the middle of a break, trying to overcome in some way, but feel a little 'depressed and even hopeless. Well, the truth is, do not be so low right now because there is a good chance that the situation is not only not impossible but very simple and easy to resolve (no matter what you think, no matter how skeptical you are at this point ).
In this article I'm going to give you a sneak pick at two secret signs that, if you notice, practically guarantees you quick reconciliation with your ex in the happy long term relationship ... If you act correctly on it and your work is well planned. So ... These "hidden clues" that are still concerned ...
1. Their "emotional temperature" on you.
So basically we have to do is to "measure" their emotions, the level of feelings towards you - that they still care? One very important thing here is to stop listening to what they are saying and start to notice what they do, their actions, their behavior. Be like detective who pays little attention to what the suspects have to say, but look carefully for evidence and facts.
Now, what do you think the opposite of love is? Hate?
Wrong!
The opposite of love is absolute and total indifference, ie when "could care less about you.
So ... If I'm angry with you, it's actually a good sign for us ... You know why? Because it simply means that you still care, but maybe try to hide these feelings, for some reason ... But they can not hide from us really. When you start meeting with another partner, for example, can groped to spy on you or suddenly begin to look and sound annoyed, angry, even jealous (if so, is very good sign!). This is because even care.
We can not be angry for a long time with people who do not care.
If foreigners sometimes pushes us in line during rush hour, we of course can be crazy about him, but only for a couple of minutes. On the other hand, people (some of my best friends) can keep a grudge for us, for months and even years if you really care about us - especially if they are close friends or relatives.
In most cases, an apology effective help in such situations. So remember what you did in the past that may have upset, and we apologize for that. But note that you must do it right or you can lose forever. Hope this helps.
So, let's go after a second "clue". It '...
2. Your ex is asking your friends for you.
This same signal is so interesting ... You see, what they would ask for if you do not care about you? They would not. At all. So if they do, they are definitely interested in you a certain level. Why do not you contact directly?
Well, maybe they do not want to bother or fear of appearing needy or clingy or too "curious" in front of you, I will not irritate, but ... The reason is most likely and plausible:
Do not want to provoke thinking about wanting to get back to you!
But why? Because they want to appear "independent, while the truth is that probably are not?
Why are simply "on the" fence, as they say! They swing from one side to another, not knowing what to decide ... And this is the kicker ever for us to jump in, act and bring them back!
So, in essence, what you really need is to excite interest and your personality back, so sit back and think:
* What have you like the most? (The increases!)
* What behavior by your side has made them happy, excited, curious? (Again, development!)
* What do not you like? (Hint: You must change these actions / behavior)
Okay, after thought, it's time to act. Bring the floor, shooting of pure depression - and take action towards overcoming the break.
I hope I was able to help you fine. Use these methods and to achieve the desired result, that is to get your ex back. Good luck!
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