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So ... You are in the break and eager to get back. You feel sad and depressed without them, and the situation seems hopeless to you. But the fact is ...

Probably not at this time have taken a firm decision yet!

And still "undecided" - and this is very good for us, just learn to use it ... And back in the happy and romantic relationships again! In fact, this phase is the most common - and can lead to reconciliation in the days (if not hours!).

So let's get to the solution and strategy ...

So what is "being fence sitters" in a few words?

It 's the way they make their decisions ... and to delay their ... Why are not sure

There are three main phases:

1. Your ex is off the fence, feeling good and is not willing to climb the fence.

2. On the fence, but firmly fixed. They can view all opportunities and options he or she has.

3. "Sitting on the fence" phase is the most common after a major decision that affects their lives.

This is a normal process that occurs when people make all the decisions in their lives ... Including small decisions, decisions decisions ... medium and large But when it comes to small decisions, we usually do not recognize the fence because it is too low, and doesn 't raise our anxiety fears.

But ... Let's do on important decisions for a while ... A great buy, for example ...

A house maybe?

For a long time you were completely satisfied with your house and do not even think about changing ... Ever (off the fence)

But then ... old house became too small for her, not enough room for the young and growing (meaning children) and family ... Soon they were "sitting on" the fence, but not really funny details. (On the wall, but firmly fixed and stable enough)

Finally, because of the growing discontent of the members of your family or a sudden when you have begun to explore possible solutions, and fear came into play.

It is beginning to wobble ... You do not know what to decide!
When someone is at this stage, staggering, they are usually very emotional and can get angry and irritated a drop of a feather!

So it's much easier to get them on your side too ... If you know how to do it correctly. So if you are determined and ready to act, you will have a good chance to push them back into your arms ... slowly and gently - without them realizing it ...

But ... Let's apply some empathy here. What do you think should be done, how you would react to a behavior "salesy if you were buying a new car? Probably along the lines of this sentence:" Stay away! Out! I would like to make my own decision! "Right?

So the point is - the more you push on them while they are on the fence, the most distant and angry, they become ... That is not the smart way of doing things. So you need to avoid it.

I hope this helps you reach your goal of getting your ex back, avoiding the fatal mistake - on the hunt for them and be sticky.