Dissolution is perhaps the toughest obstacle in all relationships. More than that, it feels like torment for you. You're in bitter depression, feel absolutely hopeless and think that the situation is hopeless ... But the truth is - it is not. You can now reverse.
I have a lot of questions from people about their status. One of the most common questions I get is: "What happens if the date even though they break? The dating hurt my chances of successful reconciliation or improves them?" And this is a good question to answer ...
So - here is my answer ...
I know this is not a council of the people until you are separated, breakage, etc. It seems so counterintuitive to us and to our emotions ... We are afraid of the anger that our former may show ... That push them away, making them more distant from us.
But please stop for a moment, calm down and reflect the whole situation again ... If you're angry (they get angry) when they see us dating ... What does it mean?
It means that we still care! Right?
In fact, they would stay quiet in this situation only if they were completely indifferent to us! Got it?
More than that, no matter what they say, what they are talking about ...
But the fact is - in many cases when people start dating again quickly after the breakup, their former begins to stalk them ... Yes!
And to get the simplest thing: of course you can logically convince them that you are not offended, nor from your break, but the fact is - action speaks a lot 'stronger (and this is when you start dating again , see the clue?). They actually see that you are well, not just hear it. And this is the power, my friend! This is the key.
It is literally show them that you are comfortable with the situation and move on with your life ... That basically means that you actually may not be available forever. This in itself makes you "hard to get", so their interest is growing so much, because we want what we can not get or need to fight for you!
Even if they seem upset, anxious and angry, it's what we're looking for! Because it is a true sign that you start to care about us once again - and will probably chase ... Back! Do you understand the point? I sure hope so!
And the couple things more interesting for the information ...
Meetings with someone else did the work to change within you. For example:
- Destroys the strong overwhelming anxiety and fear of "being alone forever"
- It's free, and re-focus your ex (at least temporarily) to another person so you feel better (because you are no longer "in a cage," no longer locked in the break, see?)
- If you have a choice whether to remain with the current partner or switch to another
And, if you ask me, this position is much better in terms of attracting partners for you and create a new healthy and happy long-term relationships with them!
So ...
That's it! This is the thing I wanted to tell you. Hope this helps. Good luck, dear reader!
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