Sometimes after beak up, when they get back to us, we think what would happen if we tried to go after our ex? However, when we gather enough courage to do it, something stops us. We can not ... Here are four reasons why we are afraid of pursuing our works.
1) fear of rejection
After breaking, you could still have some resentment, pain, anger, and sometimes depression. If you go back and try to get back with your ex, can not decide to get back together again. So you are basically asking if all this "build up" and "action plan" to get back your ex is even worth potentially causing more resentment, pain, anger and depression. I think not. Do not lose hope but only if ...
2) Our dignity is at stake
A friend once told me that even when we leave, the only thing we have left is our dignity. What do you do with from here on out is completely up to you. He had a point. We could easily all your dignity risk digging a deeper hole in the middle if you decide to go and try to pursue your ex back. How do you save face after such a thing? Do not lose hope but only if ...
3) Ability to turn away even more
Maybe your just a temporary break was also known as "I think we should take a break." During these few days or weeks needed to give your ex some space, you may not have been able to handle it. You can go and think about ways of working "things" with them, but this could worsen the chances of you guys ever get back together, not to mention the distances over which they already have. Do not lose hope but only if ...
4) I do not know what steps to take
Finally, you just do not know what to do. If you have never been in this situation before, then this could be a major problem. It would be pretty cool if you could just walk up to your ex and say, "Hey ... Let's stop acting, we both know that you still like I like, and I, well, still have some feelings for you , so just cut the crap and get back together, okay? "The next thing you know your ex says," Sure why not, darling I'm sorry ... " If it were only that easy. Do not lose hope just yet though!
The fear is more likely to be there no matter how bad things are. But the only thing that will always be there is this. If you do not you try, you never know. Even if you try to get back your ex, and things do not work out, not only do you have won your greatest fear, but you know the answer to exercise or to go ahead. The worst thing that can happen is to learn from their mistakes and now we can move on with your life. So again, do not let these four common fears to stop doing whatever you want to do, and who knows, the chances of getting back your ex is not as bad as you think it is!
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