It 'a break when a break happens, especially if they are not what they wanted to leave the relationship. I mean, you felt things were going well together, and then bam! He hits you in the gut by ending things between you two.
I know it does not feel right, but many things in life are not fair and now that you're in this situation, it is necessary to deal with it realistically. He's gone. He broke up with you and now you're sitting there pining for its loving arms to hold you once again.
It 's all useless?
Is it really gone forever?
Maybe. Maybe not. If your break is still fresh, both of you will probably hear a lot of mixed emotions about each other right now. There were reasons why you were attracted to each other in the first place. I'm sure you've had good times together. However, there were obviously some problems in the relationship too.
Something drove you two apart.
You need to sit down and figure out what something is. Once you know what it is, then you must accept the fact that you played a role in this break. Yes, probably has its flaws, but it takes two to make a partnership and you did or did not do something that contributed to this situation.
Sometimes it's easy to point fingers about who is to admit our faults. On the other hand, do not blame everything on yourself. If you did something wrong, I'm sure he did too. Accept the fact that you are both equally responsible for this break.
Okay, once you've done some soul searching you can go to take some positive action. I want to know now that love is not a puppet show. You can not magically pull the strings and "make" him come running back to you. We have all known someone who was handling and specializes in tricking people into making their bids. However, your ex-boyfriend is a person who should be respected enough to not try and manipulate his feelings.
Do not you want to meet as manipulative, because it annoyed and want nothing to do with you forever. Therefore, it is better to play things smart. By smart I mean that you should find a good strategy to win your ex boyfriend back by your side. He should feel good about you and wanted to be good with you.
There are definitely steps you can take to get interested in you. You see, the key is to first let off the hook - do not try to force him to be with you. Do not groped to blackmail or guilt trip him. Prove that you are a self-assured woman who has his stuff together. Let him know that it is good that you are no longer a couple.
Do not hyperventilate.
This tactic is known that you're still a good person to be around. You will see that you are handling the break mature. It will be more open to speaking with you and keep communication lines open. Communication is everything when you're trying to get together with your ex.
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