Friday, September 28, 2012

Divorce Myths

There are other issues that have taken on mythic proportions for the people, because too many people still believe in them. There are those who still believe that a person with white skin is substantially better than a black leather, all blondes are more or less stupid, and women can not park cars. In the realm of marriage and divorce, the myths are very varied, as the relation between man and woman is an eternal theme of humanity that will never tire. We will explore (and possibly explode) three myths divorce as below. This is not to hurt anyone's feelings, but to try to get beyond mere gossip.

Broken-hearted wives

Women are more emotional damage than men from a divorce? It is thought to be. A woman in distress is expected to cry, if she does not, she is either hard or intriguing. Similarly, a man should not cry, and if it does, well, it must be a wimp. How long will our literature and film to keep following the line given to gender roles? The answer is straight, as long as people keep buying myths. There is no way to definitively prove that women were destroyed by divorce more than men when emotions are involved.

Causes and effects

A myth is not a rumor. In other words, is never completely unfounded. Here are some of the causes and effects of the above hypothesis.

Men have traditionally been portrayed as more stoic and strong physically but also in women. The wives are housewives and husbands are more career-oriented. Needless to say, the equation is no longer.

Women have been affected by divorce economically stronger, at least in the United Kingdom. Government surveys show that a greater number of women run into debt after the divorce, but more men for bankruptcy.

Women are still not expected to remarry as fast as men, and if they do, it should be because they are 'seeking support'. This too went on a roll in the last two decades.

the men have traditionally been portrayed as more stoic and strong physically but also in women. The wives are housewives and husbands are more career-oriented. Needless to say, the equation is no longer.

Women have been affected by divorce economically stronger, at least in the United Kingdom. Government surveys show that a greater number of women run into debt after the divorce, but more men for bankruptcy.

Women are still not expected to remarry as fast as men, and if they do, it should be because they are 'seeking support'. This too went on a roll in the last two decades.

Partners at War

Ex-spouses are intended to be at odds with each other since time immemorial? If a divorce causes furious chat near the coffee machine in the office, then ex-spouses to maintain friendly relations can raise storms in teacups. The question is why were part if they are so nice to each other? The answer is very simple: two good people may participate on each other's differences and still maintain their kindness towards others. There are many couples who divorce remarry, raise a new family, and still continue to be friends with their former partners. This is the era of friendly divorces and Britain need to wake up to the fact that not everything is to save money. Sometimes, their relationships do not work, and the two people in question partly because they can actually afford to do so.

An example

Sir Paul, the famous Beatle, he finished the fight with ex-wife fine. They had gone to the point of washing their dirty linen in public, being openly sarcastic and vindictive, and shameless fight for the assets. Fortunately, their three year old daughter and disgust the public led them to their senses, and are actually nice to each other again.

and men, and if they do, it should be because they are 'seeking support'. This too went on a roll in the last two decades.

Partners at War

Ex-spouses are intended to be at odds with each other since time immemorial? If a divorce causes furious chat near the coffee machine in the office, then ex-spouses to maintain friendly relations can raise storms in teacups. The question is why were part if they are so nice to each other? The answer is very simple: two good people may participate on each other's differences and still maintain their kindness towards others. There are many couples who divorce remarry, raise a new family, and still continue to be friends with their former partners. This is the era of friendly divorces and Britain need to wake up to the fact that not everything is to save money. Sometimes, their relationships do not work, and the two people in question partly because they can actually afford to do so.

An example

Sir Paul, the famous Beatle, he finished the fight with ex-wife fine. They had gone to the point of washing their dirty linen in public, being openly sarcastic and vindictive, and shameless fight for the assets. Fortunately, their three year old daughter and disgust the public led them to their senses, and are actually nice to each other again.

Men remarry

The men eagerly remarry after a divorce, while women are not as willing to hear the 'bitterness again? This time, there is some statistical support. It seems that the rates of remarriage are still higher among men than women, with more men marry late forties. There is also a successful growing clan of thirty-five years, more women who do not want to remarry. This is not because they are modest, but much more than lead a very intense life. Marriage means a certain set of responsibilities, and take back all at the expense of a career on the path of growth is not very feasible. Marriage also means, sooner or later, the responsibilities of motherhood, and it is better not be a bad mother or neglected. And these women are not to be really hard, we just do not want to play again when I managed to get things back on track once again.

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