What you can do to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back? Here are some "secret weapons" You can use!

The Trials of Love: get your ex-girlfriend Back

As Shakespeare said, the course of true love never did run smooth. This means that there is bumps and grinds, and yes, tears and pain. (Not to mention fodder for every romantic comedy from the Song of Songs by Adam Sandler). When you're the one who is dumped, the dump-ee, and you're a boy, the usual story is that it is somehow your fault. It preys on men are taught how to think - it's up to us to be caring and outreaching and women somehow expect us to read their minds.

In the recent case of a landfill, it usually means that the boy is stuck, trying to figure out what he could have done differently, playing at venues where he could be more romantic, more care, more tender, more ... something. After all, when we are rejected by women who love us, of course, the fault is in us, right?

Yes and no. The fault lies in the relationship, but not necessarily with you. It could be as simple as incompatibility, different values, or the fact that she is just a bit 'crazy in ways you are not prepared to deal with. (Like the famous T-shirt says: "One in four suffer from mental illness, you think of your three best friends. If it is not one of them is you.").

What makes this even worse is that most women, despite complaining about how guys are terrible communicators, are even worse when it comes to emotional issues. They do not speak the truth, not tell us what is really their mind, and try to hide information, rather than "wrong" with it. If you are looking for a recipe designed to make people mad, you'd be hard to find a better system.

ERSON four suffer from mental illness, you think of your three best friends. If it is not one of them is you. ").

What makes this even worse is that most women, despite complaining about how guys are terrible communicators, are even worse when it comes to emotional issues. They do not speak the truth, not tell us what is really their mind, and try to hide information, rather than "wrong" with it. If you are looking for a recipe designed to make people mad, you'd be hard to find a better system.

So, do yourself a favor. Suppose that the break is a break no-fault (unless, of course, we know for certain that you did something to cause the rift ...). So stop thinking about her. Bring out your speed dial. Do not IM her. In reality, turn off the computer (well, after having made level 80 on World of Warcraft - a man must have his priorities, and all) and exit. Hang out with your friends. Like being single. Get a hobby - go to a game store and play something. Go to a bookstore and read something. Go chat up that cute waitress at a restaurant just to feel what it means to have someone interested in you.

You see, this is the trick. To get your girlfriend back, there's nothing you can do directly - the only thing you can do is just make your life more 'interesting that she comes back alone. That's why the first was with you - because you had a life beyond the relationship. This is what it takes to win her back. Not sentimental or letters of apology to crawl on his belly. Grow a spine and have a life of its own.