How do I get back? If the back of your mind you keep asking this question, then you must be totally impressed with the man you're dating. Do you think he's a perfect gentleman and really seem to care about you. It 'just like what the dream of a man and you're falling for him ...
Then it happened. He started dating another woman and less contact. Soon got to know the real him - how you get into a relationship after another. Intuitively we realize that if it happened before could happen again. Even if you still spend time with him, begin to harbor feelings of insecurity and fear. You started to have doubts that your friendship is shared just as flowery as you imagined it to happen. One begins to wonder how it hang on your growth ratio (or so it seems) a bit 'longer. You would not want to lose him for another woman - not this time. You still believe it's only a matter time before your dreams into fruition If you try hard enough.
Unfortunately, it is not how it will end. You must have lost all sense of reality if you think you could drop it for you deeply. No, he could win back - not when he is still dating another woman. If you make only a part of himself to both, the chances are he is doing everything himself available for any of you. It 'clear that although your friendship started well, it is very unlikely to go more in depth at this point in time.
What you're after a relationship is mature and responsible, while he, on the other hand, enjoys the emotional roller coaster by dating a woman after another. In that case, maybe you should relax and let go. Give it time and emotional space they need of course. Keep in mind that it is not because you are not worthy of his attention. Rather, he is not ready to be emotionally involved with anyone at the same time. A relationship that is founded on a commitment is the last thing on his mind.
Meanwhile, what you can do is take the opportunity to discover new dimensions of yourself. Just keep your mind off and get busy with your business. It's your chance to discover the essence of your happiness that he could not do when you were too busy to do the feel the same way for you. When you do, one of two things could happen. Or he'll notice the new and we appreciate you all more, or is it all comes from your life.
When this happens, it no longer matters much and emotional pain would be lighter. Since then you've already learned a life lesson to live each moment for everything it's worth it - without him. The more you'll be ready when someone more deserving of your love arrives.
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