To lose your partner is always painful. It's a heartache, in any way you look. It hurts. Your body aches and your heart feels about to explode. You're face to face with the most important decision of your life.
The choice made at this time, determines how the rest of your life unfolds. When you are hurt by a divorce or a death or a break, you can feel the emotional pain or continue to try to avoid your feelings hurt.
If you choose to become more defended, your body becomes harder and your heart closer closers. In your next relationship you are sure to repeat your same old "model of evil." You might think that you're attracting the same kind of person again.
On the other hand, you can choose to be wise and become emotionally healthy. You can open up to your emotional pain rather than fleeing from it. When you choose to open up to your emotional pain, the body becomes more relaxed and your energy flows. To resolve all the "pattern injured" in order not to repeat in your next love relationship.
It 'a broken heart that was kicked into high gear my personal transformation. So I know what you need to hear most is that they are lovable and loved. This is what you need to remember over and over again, even if not the most authentic atmosphere right now.
Moreover, it is necessary to reassure yourself that you did nothing wrong and there is nothing wrong with you. You would think if you had done just that, would not leave or if he had done just that, would not have died. Or you could suffer the regret that you left your partner.
Reassure yourself that you are not a terrible, bad, loving person. This is true, and it helps to feel and say to yourself. A broken heart needs love, not the sentence.
Of course they are not perfect. Of course you pushed love away with your behavior control. Of course, you shake your unresolved emotional issues in your relationship. This is true for everyone.
Your partner was also doing the same thing with you. Of course it is their fault and blame you. This relationship stuff is universal. This love relationship dynamics are exactly what you want to become more aware of the way in your relationship are next best in love.
Everyone has these problems love relationship. Nobody is perfect. No need to be perfect to be loved. Perfect is an image and do not like the picture. We just love our real self and real self of others. This is what you want to get better to make your lover true self.
You need courage and support to stay in and I feel bad. "Open your heart," was made for comfort and take you though the process of letting go of past hurts once and for all so as not to keep repeating the emotional pain in your love relationship later.
There is a wonderful, delightful magic is happening when you feel hurt your feelings. He let go, they disappear. The area where it was frozen and your healing in your body softens and opens so you can receive love. Open Hearts attract real, true love.
Your heart is strong and healthy, allowing love to flow in and out of it with great vitality. Enjoy every moment of the natural process of becoming more of who you really are, even painful. Love yourself in emotional health so that the relationship of love with the next year.
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