Fear is one of the strong forces that push one to failure. It lingers with many faces, and may seem to follow around like a shadow. There is fear of situations, and also a positive side of love. It may seem perfect, but there is the fear of being alone. Why would a person be afraid of failure?
When one surrenders to someone giving commitment, at stake is the whole being. But this varies from person to person. A relationship does not end in sweet expressions, but it is only the beginning. Surrendering the strictest confidence starts giving a piece of themselves in the form of conversation, aspirations, dreams, secrets, trust, ideas, passion. In another form, which is giving away the ego and let someone watch or take possession of it. But this is abstract. What if someone has an intimate relationship? It 's almost the same as giving one's soul. Again, this is disturbing on fear of losing someone. And over time, with no promise of safety, this leads to a most painful thought that was too afraid of it.
Ask yourself: "Why be afraid of failure?
As if it is not easy to pacify and give perfect answer to this question. A love that is full of fear is not comforting, but a destiny lay unspoken. It 's a very negative emotion. We must guard against being a slave to this thought because it will lead and draw the emotions arising, like jealousy in its destructive sense. A person will cling and strangling his beloved by this behavior. This fear of failure is an indication that you are afraid of losing is not exactly love, but what has been entrusted to another. And 'fear of losing the ego? Fear of losing what is at stake?
What's to lose after giving up everything? Of 'after many years with someone to build a dream ... because the demolition could mean 50 years of being in a relationship rollercoaster. Of course, this is not a very easy thing to console with simple words. We regret or apology can never bring the comfort of years of struggle to keep the boat sailing constantly just like the way the relationship works. And if there are children? The fruits of a relationship, obviously, is not shown anywhere, but are the result of the process. It is really painful that you too afraid of breaking. Is breaking the hearts of children is even more painful because it turns into long-term attachment.
Resolution on dissolution law in case of married persons. If everything is hopeless, there is no other choice but to legal settlements of divorce and marriage annulment. In this way, the work will be well cared for future beneficiaries. It is justifiable and fair to both spouses, even if it is the emotional impact that makes things more difficult. For the childless couple, unless there is no exchange of assets, more or less the problem is the emotional side. Therefore, we recommend that the young should not indulge in careless sexual relationship that may affect their decisions and are not willing to engage in a responsible relationship to an end. The pain of the break is not insurmountable after the consequences are avoidable. To 'break after pregnancy is an issue of life to bear.
Afraid to break goes hand in hand with insecurity. The person has no guarantee of getting the amount of love given away. If children are at stake, what next? There are many people who have suffered this situation and tell different stories. Most of the problems of society as a whole are just the byproduct of this break. So there is really something to be afraid to break if the consequences are the same as the world itself.
As the walk of life, you can only choose the lesser evil, if not, prevent rupture from occurring, which is realistically impossible to many. And 'the realization of a choice determined by anyone but the individual concerned. Live in pain but time is the way to wash away. The wound will heal, but leave a scar. This is the reality.
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