Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Is there any other loss equal loss of Love

I have loved and lived the devastating experience of your beloved leaves you? Do you feel the pain? Is there any other pain approach it? Yes, the pain of losing someone to death can approach this. But even this is not comparable. From death, you lose your girlfriend forever and I know that he / she is no longer in this world. But if he / she leaves you, you experience the shock that is unsurpassed. You know that your loved one in this world itself, but do not have the strength to find out where? You do not have the strength to meet and find out why the betrayal. You get so numb with shock, that you can take no more pain. So we are left to live with yourself the pain. And that life is nothing but death at any time.

When I cry for my beloved, the tears I shed are the most precious pearls of heaven, says the poet in me. Yes, crying, and there is no one to share that cry. If you talk to people around you on the division you are facing, probably call you a fool for mourning. After a while, you stop to talk to anyone your pain. That keeps the pain inside you. That kills you slowly, but surely.

You can work around this? Very difficult. The fact that you love that has overwhelmed you say about your personality. These people who give a total absence, I find it very difficult to bear the loss of love. Dragging a child away from his mother and measure the mother's pain, you will discover what I'm talking about. Because the mother suffer so much? Because it brought the baby in her womb for nine months, has cared for the child after birth, has kept him awake for his child for endless nights and dreamed for her child at all times. The child was an extension of their personality. The loss becomes unbearable.

Similarly, those who deeply love, love their loved like his own son. They care for loved as their own extension. Their love and their beloved become an essential part of their personality. Therefore, when the love comes, the pain is immense and immeasurable loss. What should I do? No one can say about it. It all depends on personality.If person who can somehow continue to work towards a useful purpose, keeping the pain in my heart all the time, life can be exercised for some time. But in the end the pain of separation engulf the person.

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