How can we forget the past relationship

The past that refuses to go away casts its shadow very long in the present and the future. Many of us have had break ups in the past and now desire to go forward. Something destroys every new relationship. What is this? Because if you find that your every new relationship is breaking, you can start searching for faults in yourself. The truth may be somewhere else.

What happens after a break?

This depends largely on the strength of the previous report. The more intense the love, more harm will result from the dissolution. And if your bursting took place because of unfaithfulness of the partner, it will hurt even more. The memories of time shared meeting ever. A look at something shared will bring a flood of memories of the past and to take away your peace in a moment. The past can be very destructive. Kills the person, kills the present and the future. It can haunt one forever.

How to get out?

There are easy ways to this. Some of us will never get out of pain for our lives. One method that can help is this. Imagine a pool of emotions. Imagine of many reservoirs. In one, you have your longing for your loss. In another you store your memories of good times. In another you have stored pain that is suffering. In this manner imagine of many reservoirs. Until they are emptied, will not be new. Am I right? What should I do? Please empty out. It will take time, sometimes for many years, but may be empty if you really want. Live all your desire for new and empty tank. At the same cry as much as possible the wound and fell lost love has given you. fully experience everything, suffer all the pain and try to clear whatever is in your heart.

This is very painful. But if you want to live again, please do so. Many of us hide our hurt, avoid thinking about the good moments shared together and in all ways try to be so busy that the feelings do not come at all. But feelings are very devours us in our vital organs. These feelings will not allow you to move forward in a positive way. Please remove everything from the mind and heart to revive and move forward. You can not feel the hurt and pain with the same intensity, but will be very hard to fall in love with another person even with the intensity of the first. Please accept this fact. Your beloved you left you took away something very important to you - your faith in the goodness of human beings. But after emptying out totally, you will have at least a normal person who can continue life as if a robot than a person without feelings.