Just like that song poplar old school, he says, breaking up is hard to do. In the wake of a breakup is a trail of broken dreams, broken promises, malfunctioning hearts and dysfunctional personalities. Each break is difficult and in the meantime happy relationship is more or less difficult to define as not to break bad and make the relationship work and stand the test of time. Despite this, dating a co-worker may not be the best idea known to man.
Especially if you're in the same department or need to work closely together, dating and having a relationship with your colleague is not the smartest decision to make. Although perhaps the relationship will work out and actually get together and have a wonderful life together, this is not always the case with a colleague and divisions may prove more difficult than usual break-up.
Imagine, just broken by your partner and still hurting. It 'very hard to get out and enjoy activities of daily living because of one thing, you do not feel your best and inadvertently you feel like you look your best. I do not want to be in places that will remind your partner and you certainly do not want to bump into your partner when not looking your best is. It 's all a very complex chain of events that you want to avoid following a break and the natural thing to do after a break up is to concentrate solely on working and living one day at a time until eureka days, you're all ready to resume life again.
Unfortunately, you do not have this luxury if you break with a colleague. You will not see him as a truce must bear not only seeing him every single day, but you will be working closely with him as work dictates. You can not ask to be reassigned or are likely to leave his job to go it would be totally unprofessional and no broken heart is no reason to stop the world and throw everything away.
It 'also very difficult to get over someone is to be continued in close liaison with the distance. Sometimes, time and space is all one needs and the break with a colleague who is not really possible.
What is worse is that somewhere along the line, while going through the healing process, you will know of your new love life partner, and will be free enough to put on a spiral back into remission.
Then there are the pitiful looks and words from your other co workers. This is not half as bad as the gossip that guarantee from your breakage. It 's a very sticky situation and there is just no end to the nightmarish possibilities that arise from the break with a colleague.
Unfortunately there's really nothing you can do it, just hang and let things go off course because, as with everything, at this difficult time in your life will pass and you look back and find everything that was not as bad as you imagine in retrospect.
Things to do, however, to avoid difficulty in breaking through with a colleague, short of not meeting them in the first place is to try to be discreet about your relationship so that the business is not owned by any other well. Also, be prepared for the possibility that things do not work and you will eventually break. This can reduce the impact if it does actually happen.
If you do not have the luxury of opinion here and now find yourself broken and fresh break with a colleague, and you feel like you just can not handle the tension, relaxing and easy on yourself. If your productivity will suffer, it would be good to take a break from work and the gossip and no matter what others think. Maybe it is time to rethink their work and can also be the beginning of a starting point for your career.
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